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Love on Pogo 2013: Meet Anna and Trecia!

Pogo has long been a great place for people to play games and meet friends. On occasion, people have actually fallen in love on Pogo! Every year around Valentine’s Day we highlight a few lucky couples who’ve found that their love of games has led to love.

Today we meet Anna and Trecia, two Pogo players who never expected to find love on Pogo, or anywhere online for that matter. Thankfully, Trecia had the good sense to interject herself into a conversation Anna was having with another player. That led to the story you’re about to read.

What are your first names? Anna and Trecia

What are your Pogo user names? sweetiefore, rynme2

Tell us a little bit about yourselves: We are both disabled. Anna has two daughters and three Grandchildren whom she adores. We have two cats, Scooter a grey tabby weighing in at 20 pounds and Rascal a young one who makes his name fit him perfectly with his antics. Anna’s biggest hobby is Pogo.  Mine too for that matter. I enjoy painting and clay sculpture. We both love music.

Did you ever think you’d find love online? Neither of us thought we would find love again, much less online.

Were you hoping to? I was hoping for love to find me, and it sure did on Pogo. Anna was not looking at all.  I had given up hope until the day I met Anna.

What game did you meet in? We met in Hog Heaven Slots

Do you remember which room? Rainbow Room

How long was it before you met in person? 2 ½ months

What was your first impression? OMG she is beautiful (rynme2) Anna’s first impression was “She’s mine”.

Where did each of you live at the time? I lived in Huachuca City, AZ,  Anna lived in Erie, PA

Was there anything unusual about the circumstances in which you met? Oh my yes. Neither of us were talkers in the chat. I happened to be “listening” to a conversation between two players and had to interject.

Anna said she was a stroke survivor and I asked her if she was typing one handed.  She said she was. We began chatting about her stroke and as she spoke I started to admire this woman’s tenacity.  I could tell there was something special about her. We exchanged Yahoo Messenger names and talked all through the night. I told her to look up my rainbow roomies profile  and she did the same. I say when she came back in the Hog Heaven room she was smiling. So was I, we have a lot of the same likes and dislikes on our profiles.

You see we both are very shy and for either of us to have started talking to each other in the chat was super unusual.  This is what makes us feel this was fate.  We talked on the phone 22/7 – had to get some sleep. Lol  I say I loved her all my life it just took me 49 years to find her.  Thank goodness for unlimited talk and text because both of us used it to the max.

Her voice was the first I heard each morning and her sweet breath was the last thing I heard every night before I went to sleep.  Anna rode a bus to meet me in AZ in Feb. of 2012. Which is quite a feat being disabled and alone, 3 days on a bus. After meeting it was as if we knew each other all our lives. Talk about a perfect match made in Heaven. Hog Heaven for that fact.  In Sept. 2012 I drove over 2,000 miles with two cats and lots of peanut butter sandwiches from AZ, to begin my life with my Anna.  We now live together in Erie, PA and it is the happiest either of us have ever been.

How did your friends and family react when you told them you’d met someone on Pogo? Both our families were totally against it.

Do you plan on getting married? Of Course!!

Do you have kids together?Anna has two daughters

How about pets? Two cats, Rascal and Scooter

Do you have pet names for each other? If so, what are they? Sweetheart for my Anna and Darling from Anna for me.

Your favorite game? CLUE: Secrets & Spies

Your partner’s favorite game? Spades

What’s your favorite game as a couple? Hog Heaven of course

And who’s a better player? Anna Anna Anna

Cutest thing about your partner? Her smile (Anna). Her smile (Trecia)

What’s the sweetest thing you’ve done for her? Talked Anna to sleep every night over the phone since the first day we met on  until I moved to PA and now I kiss her every night before we go to sleep.

And the sweetest thing he/she has done for you? Anna hides little love notes all over the house for me to find.  One was even in the toilet paper roll lol.

Do you two have a “song”? If so, what is it? “You Are the Woman” by Firefall

What surprised you most when you met for the first time? Anna’s  strength of character and all encompassing love.

Trecia’s compassionate nature.

What is your favorite thing to do as a couple? Play Pogo and cuddle on the sofa.

What’s your favorite dish that he/she cooks? Sausage, gravy, homemade biscuits and  eggs.

If you could take your partner anywhere in the world, where would you go? Nowhere, because we are in Heaven on Earth in our own home, who would ever want to leave there?

If you could surprise your partner with a special guest appearance by a celebrity the next time you went out for dinner, who would you choose? Melissa Etheridge

In your case, is it a situation of “opposites attract” or “birds of a feather flock together”? Birds of a feather.

Anything else you’d like to add? Anna suffered a stroke 14 years ago and is physically disabled and blind in one eye. I suffer from a mental disability. Even though the disabilities are different we understand each other like no one else could.  It takes courage beyond belief to even consider looking for a partner being disabled. For us to have found each other is a miracle. Life may not be easy, but it is perfect for us. We love each other unconditionally and fully. A love like this is not found very often, we both cherish every moment we have together. Because you never know what the future holds.

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101 Comments

  • You never know where you will find love. Much happiness to the both of you!

  • Congrats to the 2 of you – Love is wonderful !
    Hope you have many happy years together !

  • What a wonderful story. So happy for the both of you. May you have many many years of health and happiness together. This story made my day!

  • This is absolutely lovely. Congratulations on finding each other! Your story makes my heart happy.

    • Thank you Suzie. We appreciate your kind words and thank you very much. Hugs to you and yours

  • Congrats to you both.
    You are SO lucky to find each other.
    I wish you many years of health and happiness. :)

    • Thank you d1957h so very much. We appreciate it very much. Wishing you all the love and happiness you can hold and more. Hugs to you and yours

  • Thank for sharing your beautiful story! Have a love filled Valentines Day!!

    • Thank you so much Junw. we appreciate it very much. Wishing you much love and happiness. Hugs to you and yours

  • A very beautiful story. May your love last forever, you are survivors.

    • Awww thank you Anniemary9plyr yes we are survivors. That is a wonderful comment, wishing you many many years of happiness and love. Hugs to you and yours

      • Congratulations to you both, may you have many, many more love filled years. An uplifting story, thank you for sharing.

  • Beautiful story and I am so happy for you both….in order to live a life happy we need to find that special someone ….so many settle for less and have such a sad life…..I wish you both many years of happiness……

    • So true are you words. Thank you so very much Anna and I appreciate if very much. Wishing you love and happiness in your life. Hugs to you and yours

  • I think it is wonderful to hear this story, it is similar to my story as well, I to met my love of my life on Pogo in High Stakes Pool room 003.. we would meet every morning and every night on pogo in the pool room, we talked for the longest time, then we too exchanged yahoo messenger names we talked for months finally caving in and giving each others phone numbers and we talked, talked and more talking by this time a year had passed by and finally I asked hi to move to Missouri from Arizona and he said ok, he took a Grey hound bus here and at the station I picked him right out of the crowd, I ran up to him and hugged him for the longest time, I brought him to my home and he has been here for 5 yrs now, It is no longer MY home it is OUR home .. He is my knight in shinning armour, I love him so very much.. I never thought I would ever meet such a kind and caring person like I met especially on a game site .. so ladies congrats and good luck and Pogo .. THANK YOU !!!!

    • Well congratulations to you and your fellow. It is a wonderful story, I am so happy you found each other. Life gives us surprises on a daily basis doesn’t it? Sometimes the wonder is in what will come tomorrow. I am so happy for the both of you. Pogo is a great place to find friends and have a great time playing games. But for a few lucky ones like us we found love. Hugs for you and yours,
      Trecia

  • Thank you for sharing the story of a same sex couple! So beautiful! You ladies are truly blessed to have found one another. Everyone should be so lucky to find a love like the one you share. <3

    • Thank you Felicia for your kind sentiments. We were surprised that they did use us. Life is wonderful, hugs to you and yours,

  • Happy story. I wish you both luck and will pray your happiness lasts forever.

    • Thank you so very much. I pray everyone receives happiness in their lives and peace and contentment. Life is way too short to be unhappy no matter what your circumstances. Hugs to you and yours

  • What a seet and touching story. I wish both of you much happiness and sunny days.

    • Thank you so very much butterflyranch. We wish you and yours many many loving and happy days. Hugs to you and yours

  • Hi! Wish you both much happiness, in the years to come. Thank-you for sharing your story here on Pogo. God Bless You Both…. :)

    • Thank you Debbie, Anna and I really truly appreciate all the wonderful comments. We never expected Pogo to run our story, but they did. Thank you for your wishes. Hugs to you and yours

  • I believe true Love is Destiny! I have found my 2nd Hubby by not looking at all! I hated and gave up on real men. But fate brought us together too! Not on pogo but in real life. I have never been happier in my life! I wish you two the best of Love has to offer to you! Your heart just knows!

    • Thank you Classass2 we appreciate you kind words. Good luck to you and your hubby. Love is love and it finds us wherever we are in our lives. I am so happy you found yours. May you have many beautiful years together. Hugs to you and yours

  • I admit this interview brought tears to my eyes. It’s truly a beautiful story. Most people don’t understand finding true love online but it IS real. I met my husband of 12yrs online and no one has ever made me happier. I’m in love with him more today than I was way back when. Many blessings to you both!

    • Awwww Katy, you are so sweet. I am so so happy you found your one true love. Your right true love is very hard to come by and when if finds you hold it tight in your heart. Give freely and unconditionally to your loved ones and keep on reaching for happiness. Never give up hope too. Sending hugs to you and yours

  • nice, i wished u 2 the best… ty for sharing your stoy..

  • God bless the two of you. What a lovely story.

    • Thank you so very much golenone39. Anna and I appreciate it very much. Sending hugs to you and yours

  • That is so wonderful. Bless your hearts. May you have a long and wonderful life together.

    • Thank you so very much Jane. Life is good, and love is love. I am so happy pogo realizes this and used our story. Hugs to you and yours

  • I am happy for both of you, have a good life, it is so short

    • Thank you so very much luckylouke4. We appreciate it very much. Your right life is too short. We are going to make the very best of what time we have with each other. Hugs to you and yours

  • I agree with Suzie, above. (Not with god, in the comments.) You two make my heart happy. I know it is not all sunshine and roses, but what good is love if it cannot turn the day into spring no matter what?

    Blessed be.

    Noelellen

    • Thank you Noel E Marcy, you are correct. Love is not always easy, life is not always easy, but together we can work miracles. I wish you all the best. sending hugs to you and yours

  • aaaaaaawwwwwwww thats just very touching to my heart congradulations to the both of you i am 100% happy for the both of you now thats what you called everlasting true love

    • Awwwww thank you so much qwashay, yes we have found true love in each other. It doesn’t matter if you are damaged or normal, love is love and when it finds you and puts you with your one true mate. Hold on to it for dear life. I appreciate every moment with my Anna. sending hugs to you and yours

  • This is very touching! I am so happy you both have found eachother. Its great to see that their is hope for people on a site like pogo to make bestfriends and more.

    • Kristydarlng thank you for your kind words. It is great for sure to have found our love on Pogo. A most unlikely place but it was and is the best place for Anna and I that is for sure. Wishing you peace and happiness. Sending hugs to you and yours

  • A dream come true, a match made in heaven! Best wishes to both of you and much happiness! Peace and Light to you always! Thank you for sharing!

  • What a wonderful story :) wishing you both all the best as well as many happy years of wonderful memories to cherish together :)

    • Thank you sumtime2play we appreciate your kindness and well wishes. Wishing you all the happiness you can handle and more. Hugs to you and yours

  • wow i wish i could have a similiar story, im 31 disabled single . i wish upon a pogo star i could find my rainbow love on pogo. i have 2 cats also.

    • Dont give up, I truly was not looking for any1 and found her, it was a dream come true. Never, never give up.

    • Krista80s Anna and I are truly Blessed to find each other. We weren’t even looking. I think love found us and brought us together. Disabilities are tough to live and deal with on a daily basis. But that does not make us any less of a perfect human being. All of us are worthy of being loved unconditionally. I am sure you will find your love, whether it be here on pogo or somewhere else. Be patient love will definately find you. Hugs Hugs Hugs to you hun.
      Trecia
      Feel free to friend me on Pogo. I would be happy to have you as a new friend.

  • Such a wonderful story!! Many blessings to you on your future together!

    • Just wondering….how do you put your pic with your comment?

      • Actually, it just posted when I posted, lol. I guess since my e-mail address is associated with a couple of blog sites (wordpress & blogspot), whichever app Pogo uses for comments is tied it with them because it’s my avatar for both blog sites.

    • Thank you so much locobonita82. Wishing you all the happiness you can hold and more. Hugs to you and yours

  • Congrats Anna and Trecia! It’s nice knowing others that don’t let anything get in the way of their hearts. Best of luck to you both!

    • Thank you so very much SweetCheeks6805 we appreciate it very much. I am not sure how to put you pic within a post sorry. Hugs to you and yours

  • Wishing you both a long life together. Your story has proven that there is “LIFE” for everyone.
    Bless you…

    • Awww goofy0225 thank you so much. Yes there is life and LOVE for everyone. Hugs to you and yours

  • I am so very happy for you both…although my “hubby” and I did not meet on Pogo, we have been together almost 11 years and we both enjoy playing Pogo. We are in a couple leagues together, and we like to play games together also. I wish you both the best life has to offer and I am so happy you two met…

    • thank you so much keyslite. Congratulations to you and your husband. Pogo is a great place to play and relax who knew one would find true love here? We sure did not expect it. But so happy love found us and we can enjoy life together. Hugs to you and yours

  • Oh, I forgot to mention…we are a gay couple also…

    • that is wonderful news, I am so very happy for you both. Many hugs to you and your partner/husband.

  • I think your story is great.I applaud your courage and strength in dealing with your disabilities. I also met the love of my life on pogo and he has been my best friend for 3 years now. Neither one of us were looking for a relationship and yet we fell in love and I moved from Missouri to Ohio to be with my sweetheart and best friend. He has asked me to marry him. We plan to marry in the near future. Thank you Pogo for helping me meet the man of my dreams. Never give up on Love!!!

    • What a touching story, I am so happy for you mlblevins. Congratulations to the both of you. I pray you will have many many lovely years together. May love blossom anew each and every morning for you both. Hugs to you and yours

  • Wonderful and the best to you both..

  • May you find all the joy and happiness this world has to give. And yes I think finding someone is the hardiest part!!! It’s not where but who and if it was pogo or in real life just learn to enjoy and love each other because no one is perfect and we all want to be loved… lol yeah as you can probably tell I found a friend on pogo too…

    • Thank you tccvb, and congratulations on finding someone. It is not where you find them but the fact that you did find them. Your right no one is perfect, we all have some sort of disability whether it be hidden within ourselves or outwardly noticeable. So for me and Anna that was not a factor, but it was our hearts that fell in love despite the disabilities. Wishing you and yours all the best. sending hugs to you and yours

  • I truly loved reading your story. May you be blessed with many more wonderful years together!

  • Thank you Sookie320 we appreciate it very very much. Love is a blessing to us and we cherish everyday together. Sending hugs to you and yours

  • I wish u both all the best life has to offer. May u always be as happy as the first day u met. Good luck.

  • Hi Anna and Trecia, I found it! Thanks for letting me know, I probably wouldn’t have seen your story otherwise. I have limited time so I’m always playing games. This is so exciting that Pogo shared your story. I am very happy for you both, and pray that your love lasts forever! My hope is for everyone to find someone just like the two of you did.

  • What a beautiful, touching story! Thank you so much for sharing it. I am immensely happy for both of you! May God richly bless you with good health and happiness every day for the rest of your lives!

    • Awww thank you aleutluv1 such a sweet wish for us. We appreciate it so much. Hugs to you and yours.

  • Thank you every1, I am very surprised that our story was picked. Trecia and I are in our glory that it was picked. You never know where you will find love, but I am really happy that I found some1. Hugs to you all.

  • Of course AJ & I have followed your love for quite awhile and have been soooo very happy for the two of you! I am so inspired by all the love and happiness you have found and shared with the world. Hugs & Kisses!

    • Thank you Zasu, Anna and I love you and AJ. We keep you in our prayers. Hugs to you and AJ. We think of you both so often. Love ya

  • Nice story Trecia. I know you personally and am very happy for you. You are a wonderful person and I am sure you really did find the love of your life and soulmate. Take care and God bless you both.

    • Thanks Ry, we are so appreciative of what we have together. I pray you are happy and find the love of your life. I never thought I would find mine on here, but I say love found me. I am so Blessed in my life despite hardships. Hugs to you from Anna and me. Love ya

  • WOW! What a great story!!! Best of luck and love to you both!!

    • Thank you so much Smyleawhile4me we appreciate your sentiments so much. What a cute name by the way. Hugs for you and yours.

  • Great story! Thanks for sharing.

  • What a great story,I wish nothing but the best for both of you,The hard work is over and now the fun begins GB

    • Thank you Shirlie, the fun began the day I first talked to Anna. She is one special Lady. Love has truly found us together and we are so Blessed. Hugs for you and yours

  • What a loving story, i am so happy for you two it just made my day. I also want to comment on all the reply’s that come with this story, it just goes to show you how much true love is in this world and that there is always love for all! God Bless you both and have a wonderful life together.

    • Awwww thank you nosatisfaction8 Anna and I appreciate the warm sentiments immensely. Hoping you and yours are happy and content. Sending hugs to you and yours

  • Wow, what a wonderful story and I am so happy for the both of you and I wish you nothing but happiness and you look great together.

    • Awwwww thank you Wilma. This was such an unexpected gift, us finding each other. We are truly Blessed. Love does come in many different ways. We are just so happy to have found each other. Sending hugs for you and yours

  • What a wonderful love story. I am so happy you and Anna were picked. It could not of happened to a more loveing couple. I wish you both the best for ever and ever.You are both such loving and careing people. And I am proud to have met you both on pogo.

    • Thank you Ghosts hug for you from Anna and Me. We appreciate your kind words and sentiments greatly. Hugs n hugs

  • I’m so happy for you two! You really give us a peek into true love that concurs all. I thought I had found my love on here and after being in a terribly abusive relationship for 2 years I thought I had finally found my chance at a real genuine gentle true luv. Than I found out she was not the person she said she was, turned out she was a he! and he got a real laugh outta stringing me along for a year and 2 months All he had to say was how stupid I was to put my love and faith in a person I’ve never met. It totally destroyed me and took me a long time to get over it cause I was mourning someone that wasn’t even real. That was over a year ago and I have serious trust issues, but listening to the two of you. Learning how you overcame your fears and finally surrendered to a great love and seeing the payoff it has been for you two. Has finally given me the strength to open myself up again. You guys seem to have great hearts and you luv cats so that’s just extra points in my eyes! Lol. Tysm for giving me hope again! I truly hope and wish for nothing but the best for you guys in the future! Good Luck and Much Luv!

  • Awwww Tish, I have had a similar situation, trusting someone who was stringing me along the entire time. Even met in person and still the facade prevailed. I know what some of the emotions you are going thru or have gone thru. I had given up on finding love, true love. But when I gave up, love found me. It is a true blessing to have met Anna. It only took 48 years to find her but thank goodness I did take just one more chance. I would like to be your friend on here in pogo. May I add you?? I will not till I hear from you. Many hugs coming your way from Anna and me.

  • Congrats on finding one another, it is a beautiful story of love and courage. I wish you both a long long life together. With an abundant amount of love, laughter and happiness.